ok. i was hopping and i saw this intereting article on some ones blog. and i find it real true.

"I am not writing this to criticize. Neither am I writing this to show who’s better than who. I am writing this out of curiosity and for your own opinions. Many men like to compare women. I wondered why. And they way they compare, is physical. For example, the will see the angles of Girl A and Girl B body, and they start comparing.

'Oh, look at Girl A’s butt. It’s way much bigger than Girl B’s.” “But hell, Girl B’s has bigger boobs than Girl A’s' (I realize that most guys that do compare, they mostly compare about these parts). I asked my boyfriend why do guys or men like to compare us (‘us’ referring to women or girls). He said, it’s for self-assurance. As guys have RME (roving-male eye), they will tend to compare other girls to his partner. When they compare, they feel satisfied with what they have. For example, the guy will look at a girl and will say to himself, hey, at least my girl has a much more beautiful hair than her. It’s like to tell himself that his girl, has everything that he want.

It’s a gap different from how girls compare guys. For us, we do look at appearance (similar to guys). However, we don’t compare physically much. This is because girls need to be loved and to be hold. We don’t not fucking mind , as long as you’re there everytime we need and WANT you. Girls compare guys to the guy’s actions.

“Guess what? Last night, Guy B and I bumped into his ex girlfriend who still loves him and he immediately put his arm around me. He even kissed me infront of his ex!” “Are you serious? Gosh. He’s much better than Guy A. Guy A don’t even acknowledge you when you guys bumped into his ex!”

See the difference? We compare more of the guy’s action, rather than their appearance. However, please do take note that most girls care about their partner appearance. It’s not like we want to change your style. But, be neat when you’re out with us. Seriously, being neat is the most you can do for us if you usually dressed sloppily.

ok. all this is super true.a nd is also what i think about my boy. should you just judge a girl by its look? do u want a girl that is super pretty but the character suck to the core, or do you want a girl that is ugly yet have an inner beauty in them? personally. i think guys should also acknowlege their girl infront of its friend or ex. just by holding her hand infront of them will seriously let them feel secured.